Your boss proposes a new initiative you think won’t work. Your senior colleague outlines a project timeline you think is unrealistic. What do you say when you disagree with someone who has more power than you do? How do you decide whether it’s worth speaking up? And if you do, what exactly should you say?
How to Disagree with Someone More Powerful than You
Show them you’re on the same side.
March 17, 2016
Summary.
How exactly do you voice dissent with your superior? And is it always worth it to do so? Communication experts say that while just agreeing feels easier, it’s not always the best decision to make. First, weigh the risk of pushback or a negative reaction from a boss against the risk of not speaking up. If you do decide to voice your opinion, there are some best practices to keep in mind. Ask permission to dissent instead of offering an unsolicited opinion. And keep in mind that the final decision is still in the hands of your boss, but being honest and respectful will show them that they have more options.
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